this kind of a sudden change in behavior leads to an 'identity crisis' where you are not able to move along wit any1 peacefully, get cynical and skeptical about everything and start 'reading between the lines' more than necessary.. even an unreturned call or an unreplied SMS will raise 1000 questions in your mind.. u'll tend to get disappointed and offended too soon and u'll take a long time to come out of it.. u'll always rue over why people never understand u but u'll never ever give a chance for them to know you better.. u'll always be a lost soul(u dont need a dementor to kiss u) among thousands, who neither want to be identified nor be disturbed.. good bye.. o funny guy.. atleast for now..
Friday, July 29, 2011
Antithesis
What a weird heading to give for a blog? Don't u think guys.. well, the reason is that unlike the guy who started blogging a couple of years back(and yet found time to write only a half-dozen blogs) the one who's writing this is a lot more serious and that's perfect 'antithesis' to my blog name.. but in my case i couldn't attribute my seriousness to becoming more mature.. well sometimes, for one reason or the other, u stop being funny, u turn inward and even though u wanna let loose and enjoy a bit, a sense of guilt comes over u and u start seeking for justifications to ur 'act'.. that's when u get serious(eureka.. find of the century)..
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What u will say if someone , for some reason or the other , turn outward..... do u feel that he too face similar kind of identity crisis. What I feel is this kind of complex in thought process come when the reason for change is kind of pressure from society. But when reason is self generated i.e. you are willing for the change than you will eventually find new Identity.
ReplyDeleteSaying this by experience..Still want to know your views. msg me on facebook when u reply.
Identity crisis is something felt by every individual at different stages of his life, if a guy is unsure how he wants others to perceive him, then that is Identity Crisis. some might change their identity altogether, but what is the proof that they'll be happy or better off now & even if they appear to be better off, is it true?
ReplyDeleteI have also written it from experience and sometimes even the internal factors might be influenced by outward happenings and there's just a thin line separating them..
Thanks Bala. I want to know it from yours perspective. Because what u justified is from the point of view of a outward to inward shift in behaviour. In this case internal factors are bound to influenced by external factors(external locus of control). while in opposite case it is not.
ReplyDeleteYour definition of Identity crisis:-if a guy is unsure how he wants others to perceive him, then that is Identity Crisis.
MY Definition:- If a guy is unsure how he perceive himself than that is identity crisis.
So our experiences lead us to different conclusion.
Well. what u said about a guy unable to perceive himself is also part of identity crisis.. but i feel even that arises from him being perceived by others.. it's a human trait to take measure of others views before we began to believe what we must become..
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